About a year into our relationship, we knew we wanted to get married. But we never discussed timing. Dominic just knew that he wanted to ask my Dad for permission for my hand in marriage. A few months later in February 2012, out of the blue, Dominic asked me to call my parents to see if they were free for dinner that night.
Inquisitive me asked, "WHY??". Dominic non-chalantly said, "because, we haven't been over there for dinner in awhile and I miss them."
That was logical enough for me so I called my parents to set the time. When I called my Mom to ask her if she and my Dad were free for dinner that night, my Mom responded with, "Yes, WHY?". I wonder where I get it from!! Haaa!
So, as we are on our way to my parents house, I notice that Dominic is unusually quiet. I asked him why he was so quiet and he said his stomach was hurting. Hahahahaaa. I thought nothing of it because that wasn't unusual. :-) Oh, he's going to kill me when he sees this.
We arrive at my parents house and begin socializing. In traditional Filipino form, the women stay in the house/kitchen to prepare the food while the men go outside to enjoy some libations.
Since, I am NOT traditional, I make my way towards the backyard where Dominic and my Dad are and I notice the look on their faces were serious. As if they were in deep discussion, so I made a u-turn back to the kitchen area.
A few minutes later, Dominic comes into the house and sits next to me. I asked him what was happening outside and he responded with, "I asked him." I said, "you asked him what??" He said that he asked my Dad for my hand in marriage.
I then said well, what did Dad say? For those of you who know my Dad, he is not a man of many words. His response to Dominic was..."Does Judith know?" and of course, my dad gave his blessing. I know I am missing some of the details of the exchange that Dominic and my Dad had so you'll have to ask one of them the next time you see them. :-)
After Dominic told me that my Dad gave his blessing...I immediately turned my body to face to Dominic and blurted out...Well???? Dominic said, "well, what?". I said "WHERE IS THE RING?"
(Did I mention that I am not traditional??) He pulled out the ring, placed it on my finger and there you have it. We are engaged! |