Victoria and J.R. met on Halloween, 2004, at Tritone on South Street in Philadelphia. Victoria was an adorable "baby doll" with an over-sized pacifier and beloved CareBear. J.R. was a "swing vote" covered with John Kerry bumper stickers and a homemade Styrofoam swing.

They quickly learned that Victoria was not dating J.R.'s best friend and J.R. was not dating what turned out to be his sister and have been inseparable ever since.

The couple has lived in Philadelphia for almost six years. Their relationship has survived living in separate countries, living in the same house, the bar exam, another bar exam, Victoria attending two or three degree-programs (who's counting?), cat allergies, a sick dog, flat tires, running out of gas multiple times (again, who's counting?), a caved-in ceiling, walls made of what looked like dirt, and now (perhaps their greatest challenge) planning a wedding.

Victoria is half-Jewish and half-Catholic. J.R. was raised Catholic and converted to Quakerism. The two are planning a modern secular ceremony officiated by the Rev. Paul Kahan, Ph.D.

The ceremony will be long in preparation but short in execution.

Come hungry. Come thirsty. Come ready to help us celebrate our first night as husband and wife.

Victoria and J.R. are staying at the all-inclusive Sandals Royal Bahamian.

Thank you for visiting our honeymoon registry. Having lived together for nearly five years and owned our home for one, we have all the glasses, dishes, flatware, bedding, towels, curtains, and vases we need. What we could use is some time together.

Please help send us on our romantic honeymoon getaway to the Bahamas. We have a wonderful trip planned full of sunshine, sushi, relaxation, and spa visits.