 | The Lord brought us together. The singles ward had something like Family Home Evening on a Wednesday. It was a Thanksgiving feast prepared by members of the ward. This was the night that I met Josh. My first observation of him was, "Who is this tall man? He is so tall! And really cute." My second observation was that he seemed to be a giving person. Apparently he was passing out chocolate candies to the mothers at the event. I thought it was very sweet. I had a feeling about Josh right away. I knew he was going to be important. And although I knew that, I didn't push. Things just seemed to happen very easily and with little effort.
Somehow the following week we had decided we would go on a date. I honestly can't even remember how that conversation happened. All I can remember is that we had decided we would go out on Saturday night. Saturday night did not end up being our first date...the Tuesday prior ended up being our first date! Then our second date was on Wednesday, third was on Thursday, fourth was on Friday, and then on Saturday (which was supposed to be our first date), we spent all day together - a 13 hour date.
We spent nearly everyday together since then. Actually, to date, we haven't gone more than 7 days without seeing each other. Along the way we have learned and continue to learn about each other's lives; strengths, weaknesses, accomplishments, heartbreak, and all about life's milestones. I had never connected with someone to this degree before and I fell in love fast. I knew I would be married to Josh only weeks after meeting him. And when I met his family during Christmas break, I knew it was a fit.
It has been very apparent that God has been active in our friendship. There are so many paths that we had to individually take to meet each other. It is as if we have been prepared FOR each other. There are so many little "coincidences," which I no longer believe in so I will call them details instead -- There are so many little details that matter in a huge way for me and Josh. We have great empathy for each other's experiences because of what we ourselves have experienced. During these past several months, God has quickened my learning about life and taught Josh and I how to put Him first in our relationship.
I cannot be happier with the person I will soon call my husband! Josh is kind, thoughtful, hilarious, adventurous, trustworthy, and puts the Lord first in all things. I am excited for our future together, sealed in the Holy Temple of the Lord!
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