Blake and I met at the beginning of first semester freshman year of college in 2003 @ West Virginia State University (aka State). One of his friends introduced us. I remember seeing him for the first time and thinking "he looks weird" lol. We walked around campus for some time talking. It was really an effortless conversation, almost like we had known each other. After that night we met up maybe once or twice, but eventually lost contact with each other. Blake attended our rival school, the University of Charleston (aka UC). I think it was the end of first semester freshman year, we ran into each other at a club downtown on Capitol Street. It's so funny looking back, cause it was one of those HEYYYY, How are you type conversations, it's like we forgot each other exsisted until we seen each other that night. We exchanged phone numbers, but realistically because it was the end of the first semester, he was getting ready to go home for break in New Jersey. So, I knew I probably wouldn't talk to him for awhile. However, I did call him over the break just to say what's up so he wouldn't forget about me.
I really don' remember how we got in contact again after that, but we did. We hung out all the time. I was at his school so much people thought I was a student...lol. We do not have a perfect love story by any means. I truly and honestly believe Blake and I have survived so long because we really developed a great friendship before a relationship. I can't remember exactly when we officially started our relationship, however, I do remember it was homecoming weekend for both of our schools and he really wanted me to come to his school so I could meet his mother and brother. And, I think I told him I was going to come over, but never did because I was wrapped up in activities at my school. He was sooooo mad at me and during a conversation we had on the phone and he said "You're my girl aren't you?," I was so confused by this question. I'm sure that during this time anyone who knew Blake could see he was not a relationship man. I never imagined that he would declare me his girlfriend! Don't get me wrong I was happy about it, just slightly thrown off that he had given me that title. I think I responded to him, by saying "Yea I guess!" When we got off the phone I remember looking at my bestfriend, Nikera, and saying, "I think I have a boyfriend!" Blake has been such a support to me throughout the years, he has always been my friend and has been in my life for 12 years. I cannot imagine a life without him! By far we have not rushed into our marriage and at the end of the day, I know this man is meant to be in my life! I love him more than any words can explain. He has seen me at my absolute worse and at my best. He loves me no different than he ever has and for that I know he will always be there for me. He is and will always be my bestfriend!
~~Karen |