For my ladies and gentlemen fretting about what to wear:

The event is black tie optional, so feel free to wear your long evening dresses and tuxes if you so choose. No white ties, tails, or gloves necessary. It would also be acceptable to wear an elegant cocktail or tea length dress in an evening fabric or a dark suit for gentlemen. The bridesmaids will be wearing long crimson satin dresses and the groomsmen will be in tuxes. The wedding colours are crimson red, sunflower yellow, and Tiffany blue.

Please remember to send in your RSVP cards. For those of you unsure of how to fill them out:

Use the large blue "M" before the line to start the title of your name. Mr., Ms., Mrs. etc and then follow with your name or names. If you or a portion of your party can attend the wedding, please write the names of all the guests that will be attending the wedding and then check the "accepts" line below it. If you cannot attend the wedding, please write the names of everyone who cannot attend and then check the "regrets" line below the names.

However, I (Jaki) am enjoying all the creative ways my guests have found to fill out the RSVP cards! You all should know we have a sense of humor about these things, so feel free to be creative as long as the necessary information is on the card. Thank you!